Polite Disruptions - Speak Softly
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Polite Disruptions:
Embroidery That Speaks Softly and Hits Hard
In my work, embroidery functions as a form of permanent statement-making. Stitch by stitch, I’m putting language where it can’t be scrolled past or deleted. Embroidery repairs what’s worn, elevates what’s plain, and says the quiet part out loud — without yelling. Fabric becomes a carrier of belief, care, memory, and sometimes resistance.
My work is text-forward and culturally representative. I’m not interested in slogans that disappear with a trend cycle. I’m interested in statements that feel like truth when you read them — the kind that make people pause, nod, or say “yeah… that.” Visually, my style is graphically bold but restrained. That comes from my background in marketing for construction companies, where clarity mattered more than decoration. You had to say the thing plainly and convincingly. That training shows up in my art as clean compositions, intentional placement, and language that doesn’t need a paragraph to explain itself.
I think of my pieces as polite disruptions. At first glance, the garments that can be worn in the office, or the mall. But then you look closer or read it. Or you see the back. Or you catch the reference. And suddenly you feel represented and empowered.
One of my favorite examples is a sweatshirt with Malcolm X embroidered on the left chest, paired with a quote about freedom on the back:
“A man who believes in freedom will do anything under the sun to acquire or preserve his freedom.”
That sentence, by itself, isn’t controversial. It’s almost universal. But meaning doesn’t live in isolation. Meaning lives in context. Who’s wearing it matters. Where it’s worn matters. A Black person wearing that sweatshirt in a professional setting — button-down underneath, slacks, polished shoes — changes the temperature of the room. Not because the outfit is unprofessional, but because history walks in with them. Malcolm X isn’t remembered the same way as Martin Luther King Jr., even though both spoke radically about liberation. Malcolm was framed as dangerous, militant, “too much.” That framing still lingers, and the body wearing the garment carries that weight whether they asked for it or not.
That’s the space I work in. Not controversy for controversy’s sake, but truth that refuses to shrink itself to make others comfortable.
I’m interested in how the same words land differently depending on race, identity, and environment. What does “freedom” mean to a black man versus a white man? What does it mean to preserve something that was never guaranteed to you in the first place? How does that pursuit of freedom make you feel? These aren’t questions my garments answer outright, they hold them. They let the wearer decide how much of the conversation they want to have.
That’s why phrases like “If It’s Black, I’mma Be There,” “Pro-Black, Not Anti-Y’all,” and “No Such Thing As a Life That’s Better Than Yours” resonate so deeply. They aren’t aggressive. They aren’t apologetic. They’re familiar. They sound like something your auntie said. Or your homeboy said once and it stuck. People don’t buy them because they’re trendy, they buy them because they feel seen. Because the words reflect a shared understanding that doesn’t need translation.
I don’t make work to provoke strangers. I make work to represent my people honestly. To create garments that can move from the boardroom to the cookout without code-switching. To let someone show up fully as themselves — not loud, not hidden, just present. When someone sees my work and says, “This feels like me,” that’s the power. That’s the point.